Do you ever feel like something from your past is still holding you back?
Maybe you find yourself avoiding certain places, people, or memories because they bring back pain you wish you could forget. Perhaps you feel disconnected, on edge, or mistrustful after going through something deeply upsetting.
You might have heard of PTSD and wonder if that explains what you’re feeling. Trauma can make it feel like time has stopped — like no matter how much has passed, the experience still affects you. You may have kept it together at first, or thought you’d “handled it,” but intrusive memories, nightmares, emotional numbness, or difficulty trusting others can linger. It’s common to wonder why it’s so hard to just “move on.”
Trauma can show up in many ways, including:
Avoiding reminders of the event
Flashbacks, intrusive memories, or nightmares
Feeling emotionally numb or disconnected
Being easily startled or constantly on edge
Difficulty trusting others or feeling safe
Carrying a persistent sense of fear, tension, or hypervigilance
You’re not alone. Trauma takes many forms — serious accidents, combat, sexual assault, abuse, the loss of a loved one, or any event that shook your sense of safety — and its effects can last long after the event itself.
The encouraging news is that healing is possible. Therapy can help. As a trauma-informed therapist, I’ve walked alongside many people who felt overwhelmed, stuck, or unsure how to move forward. Together, we’ll gently process what happened, develop tools to cope, and create space for you to move forward with greater strength, clarity, and peace.
Living with trauma or PTSD can feel like moving through life in a fog. With compassionate, experienced support, you can begin to see clearly again — and feel more like yourself.
Trauma doesn’t always look the way we expect. Sometimes it’s visible — flashbacks, nightmares, or intense emotional reactions — but other times it’s hidden beneath the surface. You might appear calm, put-together, and functioning well, while inside you feel on edge, disconnected, or emotionally numb. Everyone experiences trauma differently. For some, symptoms are subtle and come and go; for others, they can feel overwhelming, intrusive, and all-consuming — impacting daily life, relationships, and your sense of safety.
Trauma and PTSD
“Trauma symptoms are not signs of weakness; they are signs of a nervous system doing its best to survive.”
-Janina Fisher, PhD
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Repeated, unwanted memories or intrusive thoughts about the traumatic event
Nightmares or distressing dreams connected to the trauma
Flashbacks—feeling as if the traumatic experience is happening again
Intense anxiety or physical reactions (like rapid heartbeat or sweating) when reminded of the trauma
Avoiding thoughts, feelings, or conversations related to the event
Steering clear of places, people, or situations that bring back memories of what happened
Ongoing negative beliefs about yourself, others, or the world (e.g., “I can’t trust anyone,” or “I’m not safe”)
Difficulty recalling important parts of the traumatic experience
Depressive symptoms such as sadness, guilt, shame, feeling detached, or losing interest in things you once enjoyed
Feeling irritable, angry, or having a short fuse
Engaging in risky or self-harming behaviors
Being constantly on edge or easily startled
Struggling to focus or concentrate
Sleep difficulties—trouble falling or staying asleep, restlessness, or recurring nightmares, or sleeping too much
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It’s a question many people ask—and it’s completely understandable. Everyone’s journey with trauma is different, but trauma therapy can be highly effective. The approaches we use are evidence-based and recognized as some of the most successful treatments for PTSD.
As a therapist specializing in trauma, I’ve received extensive training and have worked with many people who felt stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure where to turn. With the right support, healing is possible. Many clients notice meaningful changes within weeks or months of starting therapy. You don’t have to stay stuck—real progress and relief are within reach.
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Learn to manage intrusive memories, flashbacks, and distressing emotions
Reduce anxiety, hypervigilance, and physical reactions to triggers
Process painful experiences in a safe and supportive environment
Rebuild trust in yourself and others
Improve sleep, focus, and overall daily functioning
Strengthen coping skills for stress and emotional regulation
Move toward greater clarity, peace, and a sense of control over your life
Begin to reconnect with joy, connection, and things you once enjoyed