Depression and Low Mood
Do your moods feel unpredictable — shaping your entire day, sometimes for better, sometimes for worse? Is getting out of bed or facing the day a challenge? Do feelings of sadness, self-doubt, or low self-worth seem to linger?
Depression doesn’t look the same for everyone. Some people experience deep sadness and exhaustion, while others feel irritability, anger, emotional overwhelm, or a desire to withdraw. It may show up in subtle or unexpected ways, including:
Feeling persistently sad, empty, or numb
Low energy, fatigue, or loss of motivation
Increased irritability, frustration, or emotional sensitivity
Pulling away from people, activities, or responsibilities
Sleeping more than usual or wanting to stay in bed
Feeling hopeless, guilty, or overly self-critical
Whether you already have a diagnosis that feels hard to manage, or you’re simply wondering if something deeper might be going on, it’s always worth speaking with a mental health professional. Early intervention can make a meaningful difference in how you heal and move forward.
Not every period of sadness is depression. Life changes, loss, and stress can naturally bring low moods. But if you find yourself unable to bounce back, feeling emotionally stuck, or weighed down for an extended period, it may be more than situational sadness — sometimes referred to as an adjustment disorder. Talking with someone can help you process these emotions before they become more intense or long-lasting.
Depression also doesn’t always look the way we expect. Sometimes it hides behind a smile — you may appear outgoing, put-together, and full of energy while silently struggling inside. Other times, it can feel so heavy that daily life becomes difficult. You might miss work or school, avoid social situations, or feel like you’re running on empty just trying to get through the day.
Everyone experiences depression differently. For some, it shows up in subtle ways. For others, it can feel overwhelming and all-consuming. What matters is that your experience is valid — and support is available.
“When we have compassion for ourselves, we open the door to healing.”
-Dr. Gabor Maté
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Feeling emotionally or physically isolated
Feeling hopeless, helpless, or worthless
Harsh self-criticism and negative self-talk
Losing interest in things you used to enjoy
Low energy or a constant sense of fatigue
Noticeable changes in appetite or weight
Persistent sadness or a low mood
Slowed thoughts, movements, or speech
Thoughts of death, dying, or suicide
Trouble focusing or making decisions
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Learn to manage negative thoughts and emotions
Regain a sense of control over your daily life
Build coping skills for stress and difficult situations
Improve mood and emotional regulation
Strengthen relationships and communication
Set and work toward meaningful personal goals
Find balance and a greater sense of well-being
Prevent small struggles from becoming bigger issues
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You don’t have to live stuck in a pattern of negative thinking. Your mood doesn’t have to determine what kind of day you have. It is possible to regain control of your life, find balance and move toward the most important goals you’ve set for yourself. The good news is that counseling is very effective in helping resolve depression and other mood disorders.